This One’s For The AMU’ites

Let me make this perfectly clear- I am NOT a political news writer, nor do I write about current news events. But owing to the present scenario in the Aligarh Muslim University, I was forced to tell you EXACTLY how I feel. Mind you, I am not pro-nationalism or pro-love for the university. I am simply a neutral spectator publishing their feelings.

Let me start off with what caused the uproar in our university campus (yes, I’m a student of AMU too). Apparent reports by the media which, thanks to their natural talent of distorting words and the truth, tagged our university as “anti-feminist” and “oppressive towards women” led to resentful feelings by the students who took up the approach of an “anti-media” or peaceful protest.
I was trying to avoid talking about this subject because I didn’t know how people would respond, but seeing certain images posted on facebook of the protest sparked the fire in me.

On my way home from college, I noticed a slow, but rather progressive buildup of public at the Bab-e-Syed gate, which is also the main entrance to our university. The blockade caused me to get stuck in traffic, even if for a little while and but obvious, annoyed me to the core. Later, I find out that the very obvious gathering was the initiation of a “peaceful” protest by the students of the University, mainly the women, led by nobody else but the “power to the people”- the Student’s Union.

Don’t get me wrong, I am a very vocal person and I encourage people to be vocal about how they feel, but let’s get some facts right first.
A. I’ve been a part of this University for almost 8 years now, and you, reader and I are both aware of the actual situation of the Maulana Azad Library in our campus.
B. We know that us women are given equal, sometimes even more opportunities to excel in our fields and are encouraged in our education.
C. We also know that no amount of defamation trial will actually affect our University if we show people the truth.

So here’s a situation-
When you screw something up, and your parents start yelling at you and cursing you and being loud with you, do you actually listen to them? You obviously don’t.
But when they sit you down and talk calmly and explain the consequences of your actions, what happens? You break down, and end up apologizing and learning something out of it.
The exact same thing works here. When you talk about having a peaceful protest, do you know what people who aren’t in the cause with you hear? PROTEST. That is ALL that they make sense of. The impression that you’re giving them is that we’re all adrenaline fueled people who are blindsided by their love for the University.

Yes, you do love your university and you despise the media for trying to defame the prestigious institution. But have you heard the saying, “You can either fight fire with water, or fire with fire.”
I say fight fire with fire, but not literal fire.
Everybody knows how fast things spread on the internet, how quickly they go ‘viral’. This is not only for the pro-writers but for you and I, for everybody who can express exactly how they feel. When you love somebody and you want to tell it to them, what do you do? The poets write a poem, we common folk simply pick up our phones and text/call the person and tell them we love them.

The media isn’t sitting in front of your university with banners and hoardings and telling you what you should think. They’re using their words.
“The pen is mightier than the sword”, and in today’s world, posts on the internet are. Pick up your phones, open your laptops, login to your facebook, or your wordpress and talk about the truth! TELL people what the actual situation is. If every one out of ten people posted something on a public forum, imagine how many people would read it and clear their heads.
Right now, for them, we’re women who hit the streets because our University was shed with false allegations. You’re a woman- be sophisticated, be an actual lady! Use your words, fuel them with your emotions- WRITE! POST! TALK! SPREAD!

And trust me, that is exactly how you will make a difference. Sitting under the hot sun, chanting while blocking the road causing trouble to other people is not going to help you in your cause. Use the exact same tools the media does. Use the social network. And I promise I’ll back you up. I promise you, we’ll beat them.

Ye mera chaman, hai mera chaman,
main apne chaman ka bulbul hun

The Reality Of The Situation

One of the most common things I hear about myself is, “Omg they hate you.”

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And even though most of the time I can’t be bothered by people’s petty jealousy/insecurities, sometimes I am forced to ask myself why. I’ve had people I didn’t even know existed have a negative opinion about me. I suppose that’s probably because I did something bad to them in the previous life, although I have no recollection of any previous lives.

But then again, you have those tiny minded people, whose brains aren’t bigger than a pea. These people solely depend on their information about other people via the most unauthentic source in the world- other people. And to those other people, everybody else is either arrogant, a bitch or worthless pieces of shit. Basically, they see themselves in those people, and unfortunately aren’t aware of the fact.

I get being misunderstood. It’s something that happens and you can’t do anything about it, particularly when you’re surrounded by, let’s see how should I put this?- idiots.

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Owing to a conversation I had a couple of weeks ago with another misunderstood human being, there are three phases you go through when you hear about fake tales of your life making rounds in your campus.
PHASE ONE is when the things you find out make you upset and you cry over it, worry about it and feel bad about yourself, even though you’re fully aware of the allegations being totally false.

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In PHASE TWO, you curse people, and hate their existence. All you want to do is slap their trashy little existences into oblivion. Fury is your sole emotion.

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Finally, PHASE THREE. When you’re at this stage, you enjoy all the tales being told about you and you look forward for more. All the people you never knew you dated, all the frenemies you didn’t know you had, all the stunts you apparently pulled. It becomes an entertainment factor in your life.

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All I’m saying is, screw those bitches. They’re just people with no credibility and no regard of time and actually doing something productive with their own lives. These are the kind of people who, if you’re lucky, will be working for you. No, I don’t feel bad about saying this. Some beings are unworthy of emotion, and these are them. Precisely why I deliberately fail to attach the word “human” before beings- they’re not.

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You’re amazing. And you’re not answerable to these pricks. As long as you and your God know that you’re on the right track, everyone else can f*** it! Just don’t make the same mistake these people are. Be humble, be true to yourself.

Stay safe. Stay strong.